The Secret PO BOX

A strong FOS (friend of the show) called this morning to talk about her fiance having a PO BOX that he never told her about. The issue was that he said it was for work mail, but work mail was also coming to the house. She found the key and was wondering if she should go and take a 'peek' inside. Wow, did the calls come in...for BOTH sides! A lot of people said yes, go look (including me) but also said no, it's a trust issue.

I tend to lean to the negative side on this one, can't help it. If it was 'no big deal' to have this PO BOX, why did he never tell her? For whatever reason? Yes, it could be work stuff where he doesn't want clients to know is home address or something, but if that's the case, why not mention it? It just seems like there was something to hide.

NOW...on the flip side, what if he has the PO BOX for the wedding ring bills and/or a special secret surprise gift or honeymoon for the wedding? Wouldn't Heidi feel bad? Sure! SO what to do?

I think my fave idea from a few listeners was to ask her fiane to take her with him the next time he gets mail to just close the subject. It is not that she doesn;t trust him, but because of the secretive circumstances, it just needs to be resolved.

I suppose either way is tough. If it were you, wouldn't you be curious?? Personally, I would never have had a trust issue or even thought twice about if it happened to me, had my fiance/husband TOLD me about it when he got it. I mean, I mention to Nathan when I go to the store, and thats petty mundane! I think if I decided to get a PO BOX for whatever reason that was harmless, I would mention it.

Oh well. I feel like I am beating a dead horse! AHHHHHHHHHHHH SOoOOoO..how about we lead into the weekend with a giggle or two???

KIDS SAY THE DARNDEST THINGS!!!! Listen to what this little cutie says to his mommy!!!!!!!


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Cheers!

Sandra